Monday, March 30, 2015

The three stages of discipleship: Win, Grow, and Send

The three stages of discipleship are win, grow, and send. As disciple makers there is no stage more important than winning the lost to Christ. Winning is such an appropriate word in that it denotes there is a loser; there sure is – Satan. When as disciples we operate in conjunction with Holy Spirit to win a soul to Christ through evangelism (telling the good news), the devil loses another victim; one less person to go under with him. So then, the first step in winning the lost is prayer. Dave Earley writes, “Although it seems obvious, we must not overlook the necessity of prayer in effective evangelism. Jesus was, and is, an evangelistic intercessor (John 17:20; Rom 8:34; Heb 7:25).”[1]
There is no greater show of love than to lay down our lives for a friend (John 15:13 NIV). When we offer ourselves up to prayer for the soul of a lost person, we are laying down our lives. One way to reach the lost for Christ is to meet them where they shop, and eat, or go to the dentist, etc. A simple plan of setting up a table on a busy street corner and offering people prayer, a free Bible, a bottle of water on a hot day, and an open ear is sometimes all it takes to share the love of God. This is a really easy plan to implement within a church context. All it needs is a few willing soul-winners. The nice thing is that it can be multiplied by having teams of three or four go out on many street corners at once – I call it - Corners4Christ (I have done this and it is amazingly effective).
Stage two is all about growing (developing) a potential disciple maker. Earley emphasizes very concentrated relationship building leading to trust, a deep trust; a disciple maker would be hard pressed to send just anyone out to start a small group with the goal of making more disciple makers without trust. Relationship and trust is built by spending time with people, especially the ones just won to Christ. Small groups is what Jesus focused on and “when done well, the best tool for disciple making is the small group,” states Earley[2] Clayton Keenon writes, “The most powerful context for growth is a group of followers of Christ committed to pursuing love for God and one another together.”[3] What better way to allow for growth than to let a potential disciple maker begin taking on ministry tasks to give him on-the-job-training as Earley states it; experience is a great teacher.[4] The beauty of small groups is they can travel anywhere. Most restaurants and cafes provide wifi so there is really no place a group cannot meet. I believe starting out at a cafĂ© or familiar restaurant to conduct initial feelers is a great way to start a small group and get the ball rolling. Once there, the outline Earley provides on p. 151 is a great template, and see what the Lord will do.
The third stage is the sending and multiplying stage. This is the main event. This is when you find out if the hard work you put in as a disciple maker paid off? The many nights of prayer and fasting; the times you were a shoulder to cry on; the times of seeing your disciples through hardships, struggle, pain, and doubt. Was it worth the effort, the time, the money, the lost sleep? If it was done right then you should be able to grow disciple makers, church leaders, church planters, evangelists, missionaries, you name it. The power that should come through your small group should be limitless. I cannot wait to experience that. I believe as Earley does, and I am sure so many others do, that prayer is the key to becoming a disciple maker, and producing disciple makers. I confess that I do not pray consistently here. My heart cries out for the poor, the widow, and the orphan. My BHAG has a lot to do with them. And yet my heart cries out for my brothers and sisters just sitting on the side lines wasting away because no one has thought to disciple them. I did not know how to pray for them. Now I do, let’s see what the Lord of all will do. I suggest we pray, we fast, we trust, we obey, and we wait expectantly to see what the Lord will do.
God bless.



[1] Dave Earley and Rod Dempsey, Disciple Making Is…: How to Live the Great Commission with Passion and Confidence, (Nashville: B&H Publishing Group, 2013), 136. 
[2] Ibid., 150.
[3] Clayton Keenon, “Discipleship Small Groups: Helping One Another Become Like Jesus.” WheatonCollege.edu, http://www.wheaton.edu/Student-Life/Spiritual-Life/Discipleship-Small-Group, accessed July 24, 2014.
[4] Earley, 151.

Bibliography

Earley, Dave, Rod Dempsey. Disciple Making Is…: How to Live the Great Commission with
Passion and Confidence. Nashville: B&H Publishing Group, 2013.

Keenon, Clayton. “Discipleship Small Groups: Helping One Another Become Like Jesus.” WheatonCollege.edu. http://www.wheaton.edu/Student-Life/Spiritual-Life/Discipleship-Small-Group. Accessed July 24, 2014.

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